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		<title>Talent Management, Basketball &amp; Busienss</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Feb 2011 18:41:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The other day I was watching the University of Connecticut women’s basketball team ranked #2 in the nation play the #8 University of Notre Dame.  It was expected to be a good game as Notre Dame plays fast paced basketball and has a seasoned team, but the expectations fell short as UConn won by a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other day I was watching the University of Connecticut women’s basketball team ranked #2 in the nation play the #8 University of Notre Dame.  It was expected to be a good game as Notre Dame plays fast paced basketball and has a seasoned team, but the expectations fell short as UConn won by a 21 point margin, 78 to 57.   It should come as no surprise to fans that have watch the team compile a record of 104 wins and 1 lost in the last 105games.  The accomplishments include the longest winning streak in college basketball, 90 games, 7 national championships and a winning percentage of 86% over 26 years.</p>
<p> As I watched the game, I kept thinking that the college basketball deals with the same two major problems that most organizations deal with, talent management and succession planning.  A college basketball team has only 4 years to maximize an individual’s talent and develop them for a leadership role in their final years of playing.</p>
<p>Since business has the same issues, what can we learn from this team?  How do they achieve results year after year?  Let’s examine 7 keys you can pick out watching the games and reading the press.  First is the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">recruiting</span> program.  Players are selected not only for their talent, but more importantly how they fit the UConn style of basketball.  The staff knows exactly what they are looking for to fit the team.  Once on campus, team members <span style="text-decoration: underline;">practice</span>, practice and practice.  The coaching staff knows that the more intense the preparation, the better the performance. </p>
<p>Players are <span style="text-decoration: underline;">treated as individuals</span> as is evidenced by player interviews and remarks.  The staff understands that one style of motivation does not fit all, but that everyone is expected to perform at their best.</p>
<p>The <span style="text-decoration: underline;">attitude is extremely positive</span> and players are coached to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">develop their strengths,</span> to be great at a few aspect of the game and not average in all.  The game is a <span style="text-decoration: underline;">team sport</span> and players are always looking for the open team member to take the high percentage shot.  The team assist average is usually double their opponents.</p>
<p>Finally, the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">on-the-job training</span> and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">mentoring</span> are crucial to the team’s success.  In the Notre Dame victory, most of the starting player spent about 20% of the game on the bench so that the younger players could gain the experience that only comes from playing.  One of the two seniors is always ready to provide guidance and mentoring both on the court and off the court.</p>
<p>How can you apply these seven success keys in your organization?</p>
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		<title>Customer Complaints, an Opportunity for Exceptional Service</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 16:49:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last Saturday I had an early flight from JFK to Phoenix on JetBlue. Since it is about 2 hour drive to the airport in good traffic, I always allow extra time, but this day it was clear sailing and I arrived early. As I entered the terminal I attempted to check in at the Kiosk [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last Saturday I had an early flight from JFK to Phoenix on JetBlue.<br />
Since it is about 2 hour drive to the airport in good traffic, I always allow extra time, but this day it was clear sailing and I arrived early. As I entered the terminal I attempted to check in at the Kiosk by scanning the barcode that I printed out. The message on the screen was that my reservation could not be found. Having used the process many times in the past I tried again using my name and confirmation number. I received the same message. I then tried another Kiosk this time with my credit card and flight number, still no luck. I consulted one of the employees around the Kiosk and he suggested that I see the supervisor. I did and was informed that I needed to resolve the problem with a ticket agent personally.</p>
<p>So I got in the long line to see an agent. It was 7:30 am and by flight was 8:45am, no problem I thought. Early morning at JFK is loaded with departing flights and it was 8:00 by the time I reached an agent. I was frustrated that the technology was not functioning and not too happy about waiting in line for 30 minutes. I voiced my frustration to the agent and she was very understanding. She issued my boarding card and requested my photo ID. As she was reading the ID, she said, “I know why the Kiosk didn’t work, it was so that I could wish you a happy birthday.” She then turned to the other agents and said, “Guys, wish Don a Happy Birthday.” They all did and I said to the agent, “You are good you just created a positive customer experience.”</p>
<p>As I walk to my flight I thought how quickly she turned a potential problem into a positive customer service experience. So easy to do, but it is the exception and not the rule.</p>
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		<title>Be a Reader, to be a Leader.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Dec 2010 15:39:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since my freshman year in college, I have been an avid reader.  As a young man attending St. Michael’s College in Vermont, my dorm advisor and English professor, Father Henry Nadeau, S.S.E., told me with force and genuine concern that if I wanted to achieve anything in life I needed to develop the habit of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since my freshman year in college, I have been an avid reader.  As a young man attending St. Michael’s College in Vermont, my dorm advisor and English professor, Father Henry Nadeau, S.S.E., told me with force and genuine concern that if I wanted to achieve anything in life I needed to develop the habit of reading.  “Don” he said, “I want you to promise me that you will read 15 minutes every night before you go to sleep.  I don’t care what you read, but you must read before you sleep.”  Father Nadeau was a very smart man.  He understood the goal was for me to get in the habit of reading.  Once the habit was established the content would take care of itself.  It worked and it was one of the most valuable lessons I ever learned.  Today, many years later, I still can’t turn off the light to sleep unless I have read for those 15 minutes.</p>
<p>Now, I know that 15 minutes doesn’t sound and a lot of time and you’re probably wondering what you can accomplish in that short amount of time.  Well let’s do the math.  If you read 15 minutes a day, 365 days a year, you have spent 91+ hours reading.  If you stayed with one area of interest, for example leadership, you would accumulate a significant amount of information on that one subject.  In fact if you read at 300 words a minute, then each night you would read about 20 to 24 pages of an average book.  That means, on average, you would read a book every 15 days or 20+ books a year.  Think you would know something about leadership after reading 20 books on the subject?  It adds up quickly. </p>
<p>There are two secrets to this habit.  First, you rarely read only the minimum once you develop the habit.  I find that my nightly reading varies between ½ hour and one hour.  If it averages 45 minutes a night then that is 273 hours a year or 6.8 work weeks a year.  What could you accomplish in that time?</p>
<p>On a personal level, after years of reading I am amazed at the amount of information I can retrieve and the quotes and anecdotes I recall.  I frequently receive feedback from participants in the seminars I conduct on my ability to pull a story from memory that fits a question or concern of the group.  I thank them for the compliment and then inform them that if they read every day for 15 minutes for a number of years, they could do the same thing.  We can never overuse the capacity of the human brain.  </p>
<p>Second, besides the knowledge you will acquire, you will be doing your brain a world of good.  Your brain is like a muscle in that the more you exercise it the better it performs.  Reading is one of the best exercises for the brain.  Your brain activity is dramatically increased when you read and you make connections with earlier learning.  This process of interconnection improves your creativity and problem solving skills. The research seems to be saying, <em>use it or lose it. </em></p>
<p>If you have someone who influenced you like Father Nadeau did me, please share your story.  And to all the individuals like Father Nadeau, who make a difference, Thank You.</p>
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		<title>Promoting Change</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2010 15:28:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the Harvard Business Review’s Management Tip of the Day dated 9/29/10, they talk about 3 ways to promote change: a. Model the change through language and behavior. b. Turn negatives into positives – this can be accomplished with good listening. c. Find allies to help promote the change. We have added one more dimension: [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the Harvard Business Review’s Management Tip of the Day dated 9/29/10, they talk about 3 ways to promote change:<br />
a. Model the change through language and behavior.<br />
b. Turn negatives into positives – this can be accomplished with good listening.<br />
c. Find allies to help promote the change.<br />
We have added one more dimension: Use your DISC people reading skills to identify colleague’s behaviors to help them accept change in a positive, safe manner.<br />
When a person can understand another&#8217;s behavioral tendencies and approach that person in a way that will make them feel comfortable and they will accomplish much more, FASTER.<br />
For example, when dealing with a person who has a domineering style, approach the need for change quickly and succinctly. When dealing with a person who has a very influencing, outgoing manner, let them know that the change will only enhance the comfort level in the organization. For a person who has a high sense of stability/steadiness, let them know the reasons for the change and that there will be minimal confusion and conflict. The person who has a high need to adhere to established standards and policies will accept change easier when you let them know that all policies, procedures, and controls have been reviewed and the change will be smooth.<br />
Change is inevitable and you can make it easier for others to accept the change. Sharpen your people reading skills TODAY.</p>
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		<title>The Power of a Simple Idea</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 14:44:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In 1864 Louis Pasteur showed that airborne microbes caused disease.  As a result since that time the medical profession has insisted that cleanliness, especially around any break in the skin, is paramount.   Over 137 years later a young doctor wondered why so many patients in the hospital were developing infections after having an intravenous line.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In 1864 Louis Pasteur showed that airborne microbes caused disease.  As a result since that time the medical profession has insisted that cleanliness, especially around any break in the skin, is paramount.  </p>
<p>Over 137 years later a young doctor wondered why so many patients in the hospital were developing infections after having an intravenous line.  Like any good researcher, he observed what was happening before, during and after an intravenous line was inserted into a patient. Sometimes, procedures that were common knowledge were not being utilized. </p>
<p> As a result he created a simple five point checklist to avoid infection when inserting a line. 1. Wash hands with soap; 2. Clean the patient’s skin with antiseptic; 3. Place a sterile drape over the patient; 4. Wear a sterile mask, hat, gown and gloves; 5. Put a sterile dressing over the catheter site.</p>
<p> This simple idea is credited with saving 1,500 lives in the first 18 months of implementation and the young doctor was named in 2008 to Time magazine’s list of the World’s 100 Most Influential People.  The doctor is Peter Pronovost, a critical care researcher at John Hopkins University, who was born and grew up in Waterbury, CT.</p>
<p> The lesson of this story is that you should not assume that knowledgeable people always remember to do what they know.  The checklist insures that all the necessary steps are performed.  By the way, Dr. Pronovost used an idea from a different field to create his checklist.  The doctor is also a pilot and would never take off without going through the pre-flight checklist.  What checklist would help you achieve greater results?</p>
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		<title>Those New Year Resolutions</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 17:36:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s that time again; time to make a new you with all those New Year Resolutions.  Here are some tested tips to help improve your success rate. Focus on only one resolution.  Most people try to accomplish too many resolutions and get overcome with trying to keep all of them.  Pick the one resolution that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s that time again; time to make a new you with all those New Year Resolutions.  Here are some tested tips to help improve your success rate.</p>
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<li>Focus on only one resolution.  Most people try to accomplish too many resolutions and get overcome with trying to keep all of them.  Pick the one resolution that will give you the biggest return on your investment of time.</li>
<li>Keep it SMART.  That stands for Specific, Measured, Achievable, Relevant and Timed.</li>
<li>Set up reminders.  Psychologists tell us that it take 21 to 34 days to develop a new habit.  That’s really what a resolution is, a new habit.  If you don’t remind yourself of the desired change you may fall into you old habits.  Put a sign up in your work area as a reminder, program reminders into your computer every week and post a note on your bathroom mirror.</li>
<li>Start strong.  A strong start will help you maintain the awareness that this is important.  Let others know what you want to accomplish so they can support you. </li>
<li>Try an accountability partner.  We have used this concept successfully for the past 20+ years.  Contact a friend and ask them to check in with you twice a week for a month to see how you are doing.  You can also help them stay on track for their resolutions.  If you have to report your progress to someone you are more apt to keep doing the new behavior.  After the first month, decide if the arrangement is working and if you want to continue.  </li>
<li>Enjoy the ride.  Achieving a resolution, developing a new habit is a process.  Enjoy and celebrate each success along the way and at the end of the year you will be a better you.</li>
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<p>HAPPY NEW YEAR</p>
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		<title>The Gallup 12</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:21:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Gallup team interviewed over 80,000 managers in 400 companies to determine what great managers do differently. These 12 statements, (The Gallup Q12©) from Gallup&#8217;s pioneering research represent those practices that best predict employee and workgroup performance. I know what is expected of me at work. I have the materials and equipment I need to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">The Gallup team interviewed over 80,000 managers in 400 companies to determine what great managers do differently. These 12 statements, (The Gallup Q<sup>12©</sup>) from Gallup&#8217;s pioneering research represent those practices that best predict employee and workgroup performance.</span></p>
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<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">I know what is expected of me at work. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">I have the materials and equipment I need to do my work right. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">At work, I have the opportunity to do what I do best every day. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">In the last seven days, I have received recognition or praise for doing good work. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">My supervisor, or someone at work, seems to care about me as a person. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">There is someone at work who encourages my development. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">At work, my opinions seem to count. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">The mission or purpose of my company makes me feel my job is important. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">My associates or fellow employees are committed to doing quality work. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">I have a best friend at work. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">In the last six months, someone at work has talked to me about my progress. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">This last year, I have had opportunities at work to learn and grow.</span></li>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><sub><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Copyright © 1992-1999 The Gallup Organization, Princeton, NJ. All rights reserved.</span></sub></p>
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		<title>The Importance of Questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 19:58:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I keep six honest servants. They taught me all I know. Their names are What and Why and When, and How and Where and Who.” …from “The Elephant&#8217;s Child” by Rudyard Kipling (1865-1936)   Kipling’s thoughts are as relevant today as when they were written.  In interpersonal communication, four of those questions take center stage, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;" lang="EN">I keep <strong><span style="font-family: Arial;">six</span></strong> <strong><span style="font-family: Arial;">honest</span></strong> <strong><span style="font-family: Arial;">servants</span></strong>. They taught me all I know. Their names are What and Why and When, and How and</span><span style="font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN;" lang="EN"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;" lang="EN">Where and Who.” …from “</span><strong><em><span style="font-size: 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">The Elephant&#8217;s Child” by</span></span></em></strong><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;" lang="EN"> Rudyard Kipling (1865-1936)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;" lang="EN"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">Kipling’s thoughts are as relevant today as when they were written.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>In interpersonal communication, four of those questions take center stage, What, Who, How and Why.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>After many years of observing human behavior, I am convinced that we can improve our interpersonal communication if we just focus on these four questions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">Most people rely on two of the four questions most of the time when communicating.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The key to effective communication is to answer the other person’s questions first and then deal with your own questions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Once their questions are answered they are willing to listen and answer your questions. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">Let me offer an example: I have a client/friend that I have worked with for many years.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>She is extremely capable and detailed and in our communication she is always interested in the How and Why of the project.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>My questions tend to be the What and Who of any project.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Although we look at the world differently, we work extremely well together because of our mutual respect and trust.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>As long as her How and Why questions are answered she if eager to listen to my What and Who.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Because we deal with all four questions we make a very formidable team.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;">I am frequently asked for strategies on dealing with a team or one-on-one encounters that are stuck.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>There are road blocks and people don’t know how to get passed them. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Here is a strategy that has worked.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>First, acknowledge that the process is blocked.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>You might say, “We seem to be at an impasse.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Then say, “May I ask a question” and ask “At this moment which of the following is most important, What, Who, How or Why”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>In most cases this will move the discussion along and the other individual(s) will get their needs met.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Once everyone has their question answered the process can continue and you will achieve your objectives.</span></p>
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		<title>What did famous people say about listening?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 16:28:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Every man I meet is in some way my superior, and I can learn from him.”                                       Ralph Waldo Emerson   “The friends who listen to us are the ones we move toward, and we want to sit in their radius.”                            Karl Menninger   “It is better to remain quiet and be thought a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="font-size: small;">“Every man I meet is in some way my superior, and I can learn from him.”</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                      </span><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Ralph Waldo Emerson</em></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="font-size: small;">“The friends who listen to us are the ones we move toward, and we want to sit in their radius.”<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">         </span><span style="mso-tab-count: 2;">                   </span><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Karl Menninger</em></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="font-size: small;">“It is better to remain quiet and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.”</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                      </span><span class="lw-text"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: black;">Abraham Lincoln</span></em></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">“Listen long enough and the person will generally come up with an adequate solution”</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                      </span><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Mary Kay Ash</em></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">“People who accomplish things do more listening that talking.”</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                      </span><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Irving Shapiro, former chairman of DuPont</em></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">“The key to success is to get out into the store and listen to what the associates have to say.”<span style="mso-tab-count: 2;">           </span><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">          </span><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Sam Walton, founder of Wal-Mart</em></span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">“You ain’t learnin’ nothin’ when you’re doin’ all the talkin’.”</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                      </span><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">President Lyndon B. Johnson’s office sign as a Senator</em></span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">“People will flood you with ideas if you let them.”</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                      </span><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Peter Smith, General Signal</em></span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">“A single conversation across the table with a wise man is better than ten years’ study of books.”<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">      </span><span style="mso-tab-count: 2;">                   </span><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Henry Wadsworth Longfellow</em></span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">“The way to stay fresh is you never stop traveling, you never stop listening.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>You never stop asking people what they thing.”</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span class="lw-text"><span style="font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                      </span><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Rene McPherson, former chairman, Dana</em></span></span></span><em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma;"></span></em></p>
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		<title>Listening</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 14:17:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A MAP for Listening I have often ask participants, “How difficult is it for people in your organization to make a mistake listening that cost the company $20?” Most people respond that they would be thankful if it only happened once a week instead of once a day. Considering that the average individual works 240 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A MAP for Listening<br />
I have often ask participants, “How difficult is it for people in your organization to make a mistake listening that cost the company $20?”  Most people respond that they would be thankful if it only happened once a week instead of once a day.  Considering that the average individual works 240 days a year, a daily mistake is costing the company $4800 per year per worker!  Multiply that by the number of employees and it can get expensive.</p>
<p>Here is a little MAP to help with listening.  M is for mental aspect of listening.  Keep you mind focused on what is being said and resist mental distractions.  A is for attitude.  Create the desire to want to listen.  We have all had the experience of really listening when dealing with a distraught family member or friend.  At those times we listen because we know that it is important.  The P is for the physical side of listening.  Maintain eye contact, lean into the conversation, watch for nonverbal signals and react to what is said.</p>
<p>Try this MAP and watch your listening ability improve.</p>
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